Messages from the beyond?

Today I read an incredible story. China has a website where you can leave a message for a friend, family or loved one to read after that person has passed away. Maybe it’s just me being old fashion, but my hubby knows I love him with all that I am. My family and friends also know I love and appreciate them, that they are dear to me. So why tell someone you love them from after you are dead? People need to know that you and appreciate them for who they are while you’re still here on this earth. Well that’s my opinion anyways.

My mom died a sudden death, one day she had a cold, the next she was dying, just like that! I was with her at her home when it all went to hell. The doctor telling me that she wouldn't survive the night. My mom, she knew it too apparently, because she said her goodbye when she was taken to the ambulance. She died before they got her to the hospital. This all went down in a matter of not even an hour, just to give you an idea of how fast it all went to shit.

When I came into the living room that horrific night, I could tell that she was in a bad shape. I recognize a heart attack when I see one. My mom was in the middle of a huge heart attack, the doc wasn't even able to find het veins to enter the diuretics. By then her lunges were full of fluids and she was practically drowning.

Although I was sick with grief, I love my mom so much, I never had the thought * I wanted to tell her so much and now I can’t anymore*. She knew I loved her dearly and I knew she loved me just as much. What I try to say is, let spouses, family and friends know how you feel while you still can tell them yourself. People should hear it coming directly from you and not read it afterwards on a website. Again maybe I’m old fashioned *shrug*. Hell I even tell and show my li’ll dog how much I love him.