Good Times and sad Times.

08-19-2012

Last week.

I didn’t have the time to update my blog last week so, I will write down the (for me) important things that happened in week 33

I’m writing all of this offline (not having internet at the camp side). As I’m writing this down I’m out camping with hubby and li’ll Max, it’s been two days since we arrived here at the camp site. And I hope that I can post some of these following blogs online in the days to come (will search for a hotspot somewhere)

Here it goes,

Week 33

To write down this week’s opening story is very hard but, it also helps me to coop with things, horrible life altering things.

Life isn’t always fair

Life isn’t fair, never was, and never will be!!

At the beginning of the week I got some bad and very sad news, hubby and I were walking Max and on our way back to the house, one of my neighbors called me back. She and her partner are living around the corner from our house, so I asked my hubby to take Max home and I went to see  her. Now, I do know that her sister-in-law is in the hospital and that she’s very sick (the big C) I just can’t write down that word.  

Anyways she was crying and told me that her S-I-L is dying. 

And although I wasn’t surprised because I knew that she had an outbreak of the big C. at four crucial different places in her body and the Chemo and Radiation didn’t have any  effect at all.

But still, to see my neighbor in so much distress and to actually hear out loud that someone you know and like so much, has only, maybe, two to three weeks left, is devastating. When I was called over to my neighbor, her partner was  already at the hospital again, she works forty hours a week and is spending ever single minute of her time at her sisters bedside.   So I held my neighbor in my arms and let her cry, we cried together. I sincerely hope her suffering will end soon, she is a great person and she doesn’t deserve any of this.

More of the week.

Week 33 was uneventful ‘routine’ if you will. The weather is very nice so far, I only have to work until Thursday and then…..I take my much needed three weeks’ vacation.

Hubby has his Smart Club event, starting Thursday 23^th august and at first I didn’t want to go with him to the event. But because the great weather and the fact that I need my heart meds again made me decide otherwise. So on Wednesday I told him I decided to come along after all, he just smiled and said “It took you long enough” he knew I would go with him even before I did myself.

We had reservations from Monday 20^th  till Sunday 26^th  of august and I was like, why don’t we leave sooner and spend the weekend already at the camp side we can take Max with us so what’s holding us back. So after some hasty preparations ‘I always do some extra cleaning when we’re away for some time.’ We left on Friday morning and we are having a wonderful time. Nice warm weather although, it’s noon and the temperature hit the 35 degrees Celsius already. So I made myself and Max comfortable in the shade sports drink at hand because I loos so much vitamins and minerals when it’s this hot.

Because of the heat we took li’ll Max for his walk very early in the morning fist at 7 am second at 830 am. We can’t take him out at noon or even in the afternoon because he can’t take the head, poor pooch.

Take care!